Yesterday was lefty day. A day to celebrate the 10% of the population who are left-handed. Matt is a lefty and I grew up believing the myth that left handed people are smarter than the average jo. I still believe that. I spent all day yesterday thinking about him and how much I love him, but neglected to tell him, so today's post is all about him.
Isn't he just adorable with his bright red curly hair and chubby cheeks? I see his daughter Alexi all over this picture. |
Matt has been my best friend for my entire life. We are only fifteen months apart, so I do not remember life without him in it. We are two peas in a pod.
This was at an awards ceremony for band in high school. I'm assuming we were supposed to be quiet, I can't remember what we were laughing about, but it looks good enough to risk it. |
And then there's the times I made him play wedding.
When I got married I forced him to reinact our childhood picture (haha, notice how I made him hold my hand?!). |
In all of those goofy games you know what stands out to me now? He never once complained! Life hasn't really changed much since. We are still dragging each other around on little exersions, not as many as in our childhood. In fact, not nearly enough. I miss him.
Both of us are married now, with our spouse being #1 and both of us are busy with jobs and kids, so our life of childhood play has changed significantly. The last time I stayed with his family, however, we did dump the Lego's out to reminisce.
That night, just sitting there building a Lego town was one of the most enjoyable evenings I've had in a long time. Let me tell you why...
Matt is not a man of words. So when he says something you better listen - it's either thought provoking or hilarious. When we build Lego's we don't spend much time talking, just building, enjoying the relaxing silence in an all too busy world.
Matt is a builder. He can come up with the most amazing Lego vehicles including his own design of a logging truck, firetruck, sports cars, and the list could go on forever. The intricate details amaze me still. He's no different with a hammer and nails; and once he gets under the hood of a vehicle he's in heaven.
He was so proud of that truck and all the work he put into it! |
He has a HUGE heart. If he writes you a letter - be prepared to bawl your eyes out. If he loves you, he will do the simplest things to make you feel loved.
Like picking flowers for all my friends when we graduated from college. |
Or putting his arms around all three of his sisters... |
Or in the way he holds his son... |
Or hugs his wife. |
You can't not love him the moment you meet him. He's a loyal, trustworthy, "what do you need? I'll do it for you" kind of friend.
His shirts says, "Mothers Love Me" and is that ever the truth. |
Matt... do you think God will let us play Lego's and listen to Jars of Clay when we get to heaven? ;) I hope so...
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